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Imperfect Endings: A Daughter's Story of Love, Loss, and Letting Go
Imperfect Endings: A Daughter's Story of Love, Loss, and Letting Go
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  • Paperback
  • Mar.01.2011
  • 9781439148310

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Zoe Carter’s busy life on the West Coast with her husband and daughters takes an unexpected detour when her glamorous, independent-minded mother, Margaret, decides she wants to “end things.” Tired of living with Parkinson’s disease, Margaret declares she is no longer willing to go where the illness is taking her. Unsure how—or when—she will end her life, she is certain of one thing: she wants her three daughters there when she does it.    
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Zoe Carter’s busy life on the West Coast with her husband and daughters takes an unexpected detour when her glamorous, independent-minded mother, Margaret, decides she wants to “end things.” Tired of living with Parkinson’s disease, Margaret declares she is no longer willing to go where the illness is taking her. Unsure how—or when—she will end her life, she is certain of one thing: she wants her three daughters there when she does it.

 

 

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I don’t have to answer the phone. On my knees in the bathroom, daughters just settled into the tub, I have the perfect excuse to ignore it. Let the machine pick it up instead. But I push off my knees and head for the door, my brain several steps behind my body as it usually is by this time of day. 
      Only then do I pause, reluctant to leave the steamy warmth of the bathroom, the giddiness of my naked children who are lolling at one end of the tub, pouring water on each other. At four and eight, Lane and Clara are hardly at risk for drowning, but I remind them to be careful – keep the water in the tub, hold off on the shampoo —and step out into the bedroom.
      Shading my eyes from the blinding, late-day sun, I glance out at the glimmering strip of the San Francisco Bay and, just beyond it, the hazy outline of the Golden Gate Bridge. Four years on the West Coast and this view of water and sky still thrills me.
      I pick up the phone, annoyed with myself for answering it, and sure it’s someone calling to either sell or beg something from me.
      “Oh, there you are! Have I caught you at a bad time?” It’s my mother. Her voice sounds cheerful and a little excited, as if she has good news. “I was just looking at my calendar and wondering if you could come to D.C. the first weekend of February?”
      “I’m not sure.  I’ll have to check. What’s up?” I drop onto the bed, heart beginning to clamor. I know what’s up.
      “Well gosh, honey, I’ve been trying to find a good time to end things as you know and I was hoping that weekend might work for you. I haven’t called your sisters yet, but of course I want them here too. And your girls if you can bring them. I’m still working out the details, but --”
      “Jesus, Momma,” I hiss, cupping my hand over my mouth so Clara and Lane can’t hear me. “You make it sound like a family reunion!”
      “Well there’s no reason to get huffy, Zoe,” she says. “I can’t plan anything unless I know you girls are available. Can you just take a quick peek at your calendar?”
      “No, I can’t! I’m in the middle of giving my kids a bath, I don’t have my calendar, and I can’t think about this right now.”
      “Fine.” Her irritation is palpable and for a moment there is silence. “So when can you call me back?”
      I want to say never. I will never call her back if she insists on talking about killing herself. But I think of her lying alone in her big empty bed, of her dying alone because her daughters weren’t willing to show up, and my petulance turns to shame.
        “I’ll call you tomorrow.”
      “Okay, sweetie.” Her voice is cheerful again. “That would be great. Talk to you then!”
      I stand up and look out the window, the sound of splashing and laughter faint in the background as if my daughters -- or, for that matter, my entire life -- had just receded into the distance. I watch the last burning rays of sunlight disappear behind Mount Tamalpais, the vast, glorious landscape slowly turning from gold to gray.  

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I'm a graduate of Columbia Journalism School and have written for numerous publications including The New York Times, The San Francisco Chronicle, Vogue and Salon. Imperfect Endings is my first memoir. The book won first place in the Pacific...

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