It was a D quality flawless diamond, almost two carats. I asked the customer if I could loupe it. He handed the tiffany-set solitaire to me. I placed the loupe close to my right eye and looked first at the table of the stone, I turned it slowly – even slower. I was enveloped in the clarity and colorless, brilliant-cut diamond. I looked at each side (the pavilion) and from the bottom (through the culet). Flawless – clearer than pure distilled water.
I handed the platinum ring back. “It’s spectacular. Thank you. I felt a sense of peace as I looked at it.” “Yes,” he said, I know, there is always peace in beauty.” This was spoken to me over twenty years ago, when I managed a fine jewelry store.
I was in Galveston this weekend. The gulf water was a teal blue. The foam was frothy white. There was the lightest of breeze, and the sun was warming the sand, and our faces, as we walked to the pier. The ocean was beautiful. There was great peace.
That’s when I remembered the encounter with the diamond man. There is always peace in beauty. We are fortunate right now in the Texas Gulf; the oil spill is not affecting us. However, those in the other Gulf States are not so blessed. The waters are not beautiful. The waves are not white. The faces are not happy.
We have friends in Mississippi, Louisiana, and Florida. They spend most of their waking hours trying to help, or worrying about what can be done, and if nothing is done – where will it all end…will it end?
Stress is high, anger comes easily, and suicides are increasing.
I’m sorry to report, there is no beauty in the Gulf, right now. There is no peace.




Diamond clear words
If beautiful words could bring peace to the Gulf, then you would have achieved it here, Sharon. All we can do is secure a little peace for ourselves as we remember the beauty, as you have so eloquently said. Perhaps this is a day of diamond clarity.
And I thank you so much for your last comment on my blog. One of the single greatest compliments I have ever received.
Let’s promise each other to always see the beauty and the peace within it.
Thank you for this. Mara
I can see clearly now...the rain has gone.
Thank you for your friendship and constancy, Mara.
Flawless sensitivity Sharon
Flawless sensitivity Sharon - as always. m
Sharon, I think you missed
Sharon, I think you missed my comment! m
I did!
I thank you for your tender comment. I value your comments as well as your posts. I frequently scan quickly through posts looking for your extended arms and the lovely butterfly behind your head. And I get excited when I see comments from you and Mara , Sue and Christine and Harrison. I feel a treasured connection with you and them because of the life line that was extended not long ago.
so interesting
Hi Sharon, So loved the details of how a pro looks at a diamond. And then just the observations from the frontlines. I am in New York, far from the spill in some ways, but like almost everyone I think of it often every day. I am glad that the waters near Texas are clear. I am grateful for any clear water anywhere. I had not yet heard that suicides were up. Your persepective is valuable.
Thank you
Thank you for taking the time to comment. So many people have no idea what is really going on. The media is showing what they want you to see.
A resident in Grand Isle Parrish took her boat out a few miles beyond the shore to see what was really happening. The fish looked ilke they were "boiling" as usual, but they were upside down trying to breathe and so disoriented they were running into her boat.
Thank you again for your comment.
Very Sad
It's the stories of the animals that I find hardest to bear.
Progression to Numb
Sharon, I knew immediately on the first day of the news of the oil rig blowing up that this was going to be a big, big problem. I just had no doubt. I have felt nothing but deep gloom about it, so I understand the reference to suicide, although I am not even close to being that hopeless.
From where I am, I can only buy wisely and be vigilant about my own region's health. I keep thinking of the weeping Indian in the commercial in the 70s. I don't know what to say....
Thanks for this post.
Christine