Strategy is a deliberate and specific method for accomplishment of any ideal. The techniques involved in the learning process of anything are revealed only to those who truly want to experience personal freedom. I had come far from a Bronx tenement on Jerome Avenue where I had raised two children without the aid of a man. And this was before it was chic to be a single parent. All I knew was that I would attain to my own level of accomplishment. I had no idea about what it would be. I was alone in a foreign country and completely alienated from the gentle childhood I had experienced in Wales. I knew it would be important to understand the value of other things outside of my immediate sphere of influence and so I made myself learn about things that would open me to new ways of thinking. Only by constantly searching for answers can anyone, especially a woman, find the real answers to life. It is a personal thing and the mistakes I have made have not defeated me; they have strengthened me because of my own resolve. I also learned that following rules only leads to an impasse when true desire is to overcome any form of limitation. That is why I endeavored to learn as much as I could about as many things as I could. Just like any other woman knows, and all women do, what you truly desire to be may not be evident when you begin a search, but eventually your hidden sense of self will reveal to you where you should be going even if you don't understand the logic or reasoning behind it.