Workplace affairs are usually difficult to detect.
Except at Christmastime.
The company Christmas party will quickly reveal the truth, if your spouse or significant other is having a workplace affair.
Best Way to Expose a Workplace Affair
If you suspect your spouse or significant other of workplace infidelity, accompany them to the Christmas party at their job. It's the best way to find out if what you suspect is true. Office Christmas parties have a way of exposing workplace affairs. Attend the festivities with the suspected cheater and you're certain to find out the truth.
Watch the Suspected Cheater Interact
Observing the suspected cheater as he or she interacts with opposite sex co-workers in an informal social setting will either confirm your suspicions, or set your mind at ease. If he or she is romantically involved with someone on their job, their behavior and body language will give them away. But knowing what to look for is the key.
What to Look For
If you need tips on what to look for or a few guidelines on how to proceed, get a free copy of my tip sheet, What to Look for at the Office Christmas Party if you Suspect a Workplace Affair. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with What to Look For-rr1 in the subject line.
Many of the tips are taken directly from Chapter 26 (His Behavior around Other Women)-- in my book, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Most of the information in the tip sheet (and the book) apply to cheating women, as well as cheating men.
NOTE: Click here to order a copy of the book, or use this link: http://www.ishecheatingbook.com/
More Reasons to Attend His or Her Office Christmas Party
In my next post, I'll share 3 more reasons why it's important to accompany your spouse or significant other to the office Christmas party at their job -- even if you don't suspect a workplace affair.
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