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Why I Became a Life Coach

Mondays I usually come home with a few good stories to share with my girls.

It’s the day I coach scholars at a private vocational school.

The start of my workweek is always big!

 

“Mom, tell me again why you became a Life Coach?”

 

He grew up in a remote town in the province with no electricity for 12 years.

Today, he’s a scholar in urban Manila and graduates in a few months.

Did he ever imagine he would get this far?

It’s a dream come true for him!

His beaming smile pierces my heart with inner joy.

 

I answered, “I always liked doing this kind of thing.  I just wasn’t ready then to take my life seriously.”

 

This young man has a simple wish.

Being a scholar and living far away from his siblings and his parents is tough.

But he puts up with the distance and focuses on graduating and landing a job.

He looked at me and said, “I’d like to take my parents and my siblings to a fast food restaurant.  My family has never been to one and I want to make enough money so I can treat them to a meal.”

 

“Mom, please stop sharing your stories with me.  I feel guilty.”

 

I think about this determined young man who wakes up at 3 am every morning just to get to school on time at 7 am. 

He lives quite far and commutes 2 hours each way, everyday.

He leaves home while his parents and his brother are still asleep and he arrives at midnight, everyone gone to bed.

He tells me he misses his brother and wishes they could talk sometime.

I marvel at how he just keeps on going, day after day without complaint.

 

I told my daughter, “You shouldn’t feel guilty!  Rather be truly blessed for the good life that you live.”

 

This is why I love being a Life Coach!

 

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This warmed my heart, Rina.

This warmed my heart, Rina. It's been great to watch your journey unfold into doing what you love and staying true to your path. What an inspiration, you are!

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Hi Rebb, I came from a

Hi Rebb, I came from a worldly job. In hindsight, it's all that traveling time, waiting time in between airports, and being away from loved ones that got me thinking deep---really, really deep!  With so much alone time, there's only so much shopping, drinking and eating one could do!  From feeling empty and lost in all the outer bling that my worldly job brought me, I am truly blessed that I found myself.  Like these low income scholars, I never realized something so big and wonderful could happen to me!  Thank you for your supports as always.

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Rina,wonderful sharing with

Rina,wonderful sharing with your daughter which would be a real path finder to her life.Thanks for sharing it with us.

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Hi Jitu nice of you to visit!

Hi Jitu nice of you to visit! I am blessed to have this opportunity to share with my daughters.  May the learning enlighten their paths too!

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Inspiring!

What an inspiring, poignant story! Thank you for sharing it with us. I feel moved by your words.

Eva

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Tomorrow is Monday once again

Tomorrow is Monday once again and I look forward to hearing more life changing stories!  I deserve a cupcake!  :-)