Dad sometimes hums while having a meal.  I think it’s a good sign that he is enjoying his food.

He also lets out a high-pitched harmony while in the shower.  That must be a good sign too because it’s an effort to get him to shower.

Dad is actually quite good at amusing himself.  I think that’s a gift!  It’s tough when the elderly are cranky.

I wonder what I would be like when I get to age 70?  My aunt at 76 looks like she’s only turned 50.  She says having beer instead of wine keeps her young.

I thought to myself.  This should serve as a good reminder:  Watch my weight, as I grow old.  A beer a day can do no harm!

I leave dad behind as I head home to the girls.  I caught a bad cough and lost my voice but all in all, it was a good break to be with Dad.

He looked at me and said, “It’s good that you’re heading home”.  I replied, “What’s wrong?  Don’t tell me you’re getting anxious”.

Not really, he justifies.  It’s just cold and I don’t like feeling cold.  I look around and take note of the following:  chocolates, sardines, English muffins, Fuji apples, Ben & Jerry’s ice cream, chestnuts, Coke zero…

As I bid him farewell I suggest that today is a good day to sing in the shower because the weather warmed up.  Delightfully he agrees, his anxiety wanes. 

He’s got his warmers, his favorite scarf and his outdated leather jacket.  I think he’ll be okay.