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Chase's Calendar of Events: Toss Away Your Could Haves And Should Haves Day

On this day, everyone will list their “could haves” and “should haves” on paper, and toss the list in the trash. They will make the resolution: “From this day forward, I choose not to live in the past, for the past is history that I can’t change. I can do something, though, about the present; therefore, I choose to live in the present.”  Annually the third Saturday in July.