There is always a revelation of reason that manifests through the disappointments and pain we endure in life. Some people surrender to defeat (only to and live a stagnating and hopeless state of existence) instead of waiting on the revelation of the reason they are being placed in that state of turmoil. However, some people build stepping-stones to victory during their disappointments and pain they endure, but it is a process that takes a lot of perseverance and faith. Defeat is a spirit that over powers the mind and soul, but the spirit to challenge those conflicts in life embraces the strong in heart, and these people soar to the level of mastery in life.