You don't go all out to make enemies but sometimes "making one" is inevitable.  I have been brought up to say "only nice things".  My mum used to say,"If you've something bad to say, keep your mouth shut!"  While some others would also tell their kids,"If you didn't say it, no one's gonna say you're stupid."  That may be wise advise for someone who wants to KEEP OUT of trouble.  "See, hear and watch no evil.  NOTHING to do with me!"  To me, to keep to this motto without flexibility is also a flaw because.....continue reading here