Today is October 9. One of my sons is getting married this month. The first of 3. Then my oldest son is getting married next year in NYC. He's gay and marrying the nicest guy. I'm happy he found someone that treats him good and loves him. That's all a mom could ask. My youngest pain is busy trotting the globe so I think it will be a while and I'm ok with that.marriage shouldnt be rushed into.