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budget blues

Today was the deadline, according to our bylaws, to get the board-approved budget out to congregational members before our annual meeting in May. I'm the president of my church's board of trustees so it fell on me to get the dang thing in the mail by 5 p.m. And the board members knew this. We met again last night just to finalize everything. Yet today, tonight!, they are still circulating emails arguing over the budget that they voted on approving several weeks ago before the pledge canvass. One trustee even wrote he won't vote for the budget if the fundraising line is 6K. Umm, that's what it was when you voted to approve it several weeks ago, I'm staying out of the fray, which I know will bite me in the butt when they receive their mailings tomorrow or Saturday. C'est la vie. I was exhausted last night at the meeting, scheduled before I realized that I'd be bringing my mother home from rehab after a knee replacement. I was too tired last night to tell them this is it - no more talk. Deadline, folks. Remember that word? Done. Finis. Over and out. I spent four hours in the office today with the admin printing, signing, folding, stuffing, labeling, stamping and sealing. Mailed. Gone. Stop emailing.

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Oh! I can relate to this

not only are we as a culture addicted to talk and meetings and re-hashing things to prevent any actual ACTION occurring, as you say, email allows it to go on and on and on....
congratulations on just getting done what needed to be done. that critical part so often gets lost in the talk.

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Thank you, Kunzang. It was

Thank you, Kunzang. It was really painful for some reason. I try too hard sometimes to keep everyone happy, and that just isn't possible.
This morning I apologized to the board for not taking better control of the meeting and told them I had to step back from the conversation now. I hope we can all move on.