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The Discipline of Diligence

If you’re like me, you’re a self-starter who plans each day and often gets work done faster than anticipated. Qualities that can drive those close to us mad, but necessary qualities for solitary authors.

Still, there are those days when everything we touch seems to drop out of our fingers and progress is zilch for the day. Challenging days! Frustrating days!

Over the years, I learned that the more I struggled, the less I got done. I found the best way to deal with those difficult days is not to fight them. Instead of trying to be diligent and disciplined and on schedule, I let go. I don’t worry and I take it easy. By taking this break life is offering by causing nothing to go right, I am in a better frame of mind when I awake next morning.

That’s right. Strange as it seems, the best way for me when nothing goes right as an author is to not do “author” things. Instead, I do “enjoyable” things—even if the “thing” is staring into space while petting the cat or going swimming or having lunch with a friend or camping. These pleasing, enjoyable activities rejuvenate.

The break in routine refreshes. The break re-balances my equilibrium. The break gives a fresh viewpoint on my work. I become more productive in the long run. Instead of getting frustrated and fighting a losing battle, I give in, relax and have fun. After I’ve refreshed mind and body and come back to the keyboard, my prose sparkles.

Try it. You’ll like it.

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due diligence

Your first two sentences had me pegged, and eager to read more.
This is definitely wisdom that comes from frequent setbacks. I used to fight against the days when nothing was going my way, but I learned that perhaps my inner guide was telling me to take a break, to sit, to ponder or to do something completely different!

Often inspiration is hidden somewhere within those other activities if you give your brain that much needed "pause that refreshes."

Thanks for sharing your excellent advice.

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I learned that my inner guide was telling me to take a break.

I couldn't agree more, Annette. I just went through a couple of weeks of setbacks regarding my health. No writing at all got done. While I was lying in bed with lower back pain and not able to sit long at the laptop, I found myself sorting through marketing ideas and how to strengthen a manuscript my agent is already marketing that needs a few tweeks.

Turns out what the doctors first told me was wrong. After 8 hrs. in the ER yesterday, I learned via a lab test that I have an infection. As soon as the antibiotic clears up the infection, the back pain will disappear. As soon as I can sit up comfortably, I'll write my new ideas into the manuscript. I had my brain "pause that refreshes."

Thanks for sharing.