
‘Bukit Bintang’ a Street of Kuala Lumpur was flooding with people from all over the world on that night. Chinese New Year was coming. Men, women, solo travelers, couple with kids were walking on street, entering or coming out of restaurants and shops. Lots of Thai and Chinese massage girls and boys stood outside their shops in waiting for customers. Some of them may be a part of dark side of the city’s nightlife. It was our first visit to Malaysia and my family was resting in the hotel room after a long journey. I was just strolling around to see the much gossiped nightlife of this city. It was the first time experience for me to be in such a place. Ignoring the girls chasing me with a 'Menu' of their services in their hand, I was just walking on the pavement along the road.
A girl of my daughter's age, standing below the dim light of building's entrance rushed to me in a hurry and asked me in her Thai tone.
‘Massage Sir? Very relaxing. Will enjoy it. Just 50 Ringgits.’
During my six days stay in Malaysia I had developed a habit to multiply every digit in to 18 to get value in my currency. Nine hundred rupees, I calculated in my mind without knowing why I am counting it in the first place. She was standing very close to me so I had a closer look of her face. She was fair enough for her trade to attract customers; in spite wore a heavy makeup on her face. Her eyes were dark black and mascara she wore was little spoiled from the lower eye lashes. Black of her eyes was shining even in the darkness of night. Her face was producing an unknown expression, very difficult to judge if coming from the tiredness of routine work or from the pain of earning the daily need even in late night. All of a sudden I remembered the warning from my local relatives of not to stop while walking or talk to unknown. I turned and resumed walking, ignoring her presence.
She came behind me asking ' Good massage sir, you will like it.'
I looked back. She was determined to come after me, I thought. I stopped for a while, turned and looked directly in her eyes.
'No my child, I am not tired, I don’t want any massage.’ I told her.
She remained still for a second, may be shocked. Most likely no one on this road ever had addressed her as 'my child.’ She stared at me for some time, searching something. Then she dropped her face to the red tiles of the pavement. I stood there to see her reaction but there wasn’t any. I felt guilty that I called her ‘my child’ which she didn’t like in case. But what can I address to a girl of my daughter's age? Unhurriedly she returned to her place and set on the table near the entrance.
I crossed the road to go other side and returned to the hotel room. Wife was sleeping and daughter was surfing the net on a Tab we had purchased that morning from the 'Low-Yat' mall.
‘Where had you been Papa? I have downloaded a new game.Do you wanna see?’ She said.
I reached behind her and had a look. She was happy that I purchased a Tab for her. I put my hand on her head and caressed her curls. She raised her head to look in my eyes, searchingly. I tapped her chick and smiled. She too.
I went to the washroom and washed my face with cool water from the tap, contaminated with few tears.
*****
Next day, after a panoramic ‘Genting High-land’ tour, we were returned to the hotel by the same road.Night was just spreading its darkness on the street. That girl was standing at the same place, outside the hotel entrance. She looked at us with curiosity. Daughter was talking with me while walking. When we crossed the place where she was standing, I hold my daughter’s hand in mine,looked at that girl and smiled. She too smiled and waved a hand to us.
‘Do you know her Papa?’ Daughter asked.
‘No’ I replied,‘ do we need to know each other for greeting?’
‘Absolutely not.’ She said looking at me.
*****
That was the last night of our tour. Our flight was in the morning. I was standing at my room’s window, looking down on the road. People were wandering on the street and ‘just young’ girls and boys, with beautiful faces, children of unknown parents, chasing the ‘would be’ customers with menus in their hands, offering massage or may be some more pleasure to earn their daily needs. I was happy,for at least one of them was thinking about her parents.
*****
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Jitu this is a beautiful
Jitu this is a beautiful story to share. Brings out many emotions. I am very touched, saddened for children with unknown parents. They do the best they can to cope and to survive. How can young children know any better??
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you.
Thank you Rina for reading my blog.
“there are 2.8 million girls in prostitution in Thailand; and of that total—800,000 are children” (as quoted in Nefarious: Merchant of Souls)
http://orphanjusticecenter.com/2013/01/23/a-forerunner-father-in-thailand/
The problem is worldwide, I
The problem is worldwide, I guess more in third world countries. The Philippines struggles with the same problem.... child trafficking is so big and rampant, it's difficult to put a clamp on. Very depressing actually... most if not all do it for survival...
Heartbreaking
So heartbreaking. The problem is word wide, but seems more in third-world countries, as Rina mentioned. Thank God for you, Jitu! If there were more people like you, this would quickly come to an end everywhere. Let us pray.
Beautifully written - You captured my heart, mind, and soul.
Thank you so much for sharing!
Truly,
Catherine
Thank you.
Thank you Cathey, you liked it because you are one pure soul yourself. Seeing women, so young and beautiful but in a wretched, compromising situation can give pain to any human. Its pity that people don't even dare to discus it with family members.World some times seems like rotten fruit.
Jitu, your voice and heart is
Jitu, your voice and heart is apparent in this piece. I know the issue is world wide but that aside, your perspective is both refreshing and somehow makes it appear tangible and understandable at the same time. Excellent. Good to see you back in the room. mars
Thank you.
Thanks Mars for the comment. Believe me it was heartbreaking experience.I will try to be here as much as possible. I missed your blogs and nice company of you people.
Thanks Jitu...
...for calling attention to children of unknown parents. I grew up in a Texas orphanage and feel a kinship with all unwanted children.
We must keep raising awareness of the pitiful circumstances these children face.
May more hearts be as kind as yours.
+Monty
Thanks Monty.
Thanks for the comment.Your concern is highly appreciative.Only awareness can help,no matter how little impact it may create.
Jitu, Poignant piece, and
Jitu,
Poignant piece, and heartbreaking. Human trafficking is a scourge on humanity. The smile you gave this youngster may well be the only gift she has ever received. I hope she and all others like her find a way out. Sad.
Jodi
Thanks Jodi
Thank you Jodi, that smile and respectful addressing was the only thing I could do in that situation. I wish If I had more options to help.
Jitu, It is sad that these
Jitu, It is sad that these realities exist. Your beautifully expressed piece brings a sense of humanness to the issue. I appreciate the wisdom that you give to your daughter with your example and words.
Thanks Rebb for reading
Thanks Rebb for reading it.Yes its a sad reality. I come to know that in Pattaya, Thailand there is a 'WALKING STREET' and situation is even worst there.In India teenage girls of Bangladesh and Nepal is being brought for this purpose. I want to make it clear that some girls in 'Butik Bintang' were of underage,and few of them from Thailand and Vietnam were orphan as per information I gathered.
Tweeted
I Tweeted your post. It's been on my mind since I read it. The scene of the girls with their menus just grinds at me.
I have two daughters and a grandaughter, and they have had wonderful lives compared with the destitution and abuse that I experienced and witnessed growing up in Texas. And what these unwanted girls in KL and other places experienced is much worse than my childhood.
Unwanted children are prime recruiting material for criminals for drugs and prostitution. If we devote resources to educating them and keeping them safe, crime will be reduced. The return on that investment will be measured not in percentages but in orders of magnitude.
And yet there are those well-meaning souls with idealogical tunnel vision who on religious grounds would restrict access to birth control and criminalize abortion and spill millions more unwanted children onto the planet.
Think, people. THINK!
I value your opinion.
Monty, thanks for tweeting it, I come to know that in Pattaya, Thailand there is a 'WALKING STREET' and situation is even worst there.In India teenage girls of Bangladesh and Nepal is being brought for this purpose. I want to make it clear that some girls in 'Butik Bintang' were of underage,and few of them from Thailand and Vietnam were orphan as per information I gathered. I am glad that all of you have taken interest in a big way and gave your opinions.
Jitu, At first, I didn't get
Jitu,
At first, I didn't get it when I read it on eblogger because there are many foot massage places all over Asia, and I've been to one in Singapore. But now I read your bold printed words on Red Room and people's comments, now I see it clearly.
"World some times seems like rotten fruit." Indeed. And I think of such scenes going on and on, and probably it happened near me like your daughter. I was in Bangkok for three months many many years ago, but I think it's happening even in Japan. Of course, that's a different issue, and much more shameful.
Thank you for this post.
Thank you.
Thank you Keiko for reading. It indeed is shameful, mostly from our part, men's part.
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Jitu:
I wept. Reading this, I wept. Nothing more needs to be said.
~F
Moved.
Your comment moved me in to the similar melancholy, actual event had produced. But I am happy for your comment on my blog. Its a honor for me and I mean it. Weeping on a subject having less relation with self shows how emotional and a kind person you are from inside.I have proud that I know you.Thank you. 'Khuda Hafiz'
when the heart is full, words are few
Bhaiji, what to say.......
"I went to the washroom and washed my face with cool water from the tape, contaminated with few tears."
........... when everything is contained in that single sentence.
Love your simple, true heart. God bless.
Sumi
Thank you.
Thank you Sumi for understanding my feeling and pain. It happens when one dare to imagine one's near and dear in similar kinda wretched situation. Most of times we take it for granted and turn our faces to other side by blaming on to our prejudicial reasons and excuses. Only compassionate souls like yours can feel it.