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I'm The One Watching
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I am not brave enough for civil disobedience.  In fact, I'm not brave enough to get to the airport less than two hours before a flight.  I pay my taxes on time, and I pay contractors, even when the job isn't done.  I go to the dentist twice a year, though I do decline the x-rays, though that may cease as I have recently suffered a toothache.  I guess I'll be back on that plan of action, too.

While I grumble and moan and bitch under my breath, I turn in my grades before the due date, order my books by the 15th of April and October for my classes, and sign up to serve on the correct number of committees.

I follow along, pretty much, doing what I'm supposed to. My first husband is like that, too, so it was much to my surprise that my older son turned out to be a disobeyer from the beginning.  I would tell him to stop, he would go.  I would say turn right, he would turn left.  I'd ask him to do his homework, and he's play video games.  He'd subvert all that could be subverted until his house of cards toppled, and then he did what he needed to restack the deck and get out and away from us rule followers.

In college, he was asked to leave the dorms and never come back because he and a friend howled Howl from the literal rooftop.

After college graduation, he graduated to bigger insurrections, protesting war and democracy and capitalism.  At first, we were still so connected that all his disobedience was personal to me, something I had to handle.  I posted bail, went to hearings, worried myself sick.  Segue to now--the last time he was arrested, I let his pals deal with it, and they did.

His disobedience is no longer mine.  I can go back to turning in my grades.

Society has always had evils.  Those who long have had it all still have it all.  We are a cruel and inhuman bunch, we humans.  We steal and wreck and and mess up.  Society needs people to fight and protest, but I am okay with saying I'm not the one to do it.  I'll write how I feel and let my readers see my side of things, but I'm not going down to live in the center of a city in a tent.  Call me lazy or selfish or complacent, which all may be true.  But in this lifetime, I'm the one watching the protest, appreciating the struggle, but not wanting to join in.