You know over the last couple of days I have had conversations with quite a few people commenting that they don't really understand what their purpose is here. When you chose to come here, to come to the earth plane, you chose learning and understanding to help you evolve at a soul level. Quite often people tell me they have no sense of purpose, just an underlying knowledge that they are MEANT to do something. Something that they feel is important but then get endlessly frustrated that they then do NOT know what they are meant to be doing.
Hmm in speaking to the Guides about it, there seems to be a simply answer. Some of us are here to simply BE here. To have the experience of being in the physical. This doesn't mean that you are of any less value than another who may want to be a Rocket Scientist and be completely impassioned about that and fill you with envy at their passion and their direction and ambition. We have planned out our lives before we came, I have mentioned this before. However, within the bounds of that there is a huge amount of flexibility in what we CHOOSE to do. Hong (one of my previous guides) summed it up beautifully, you have survived conception, many did not. You have experienced and grown, survived childhood, many did not. You have grown to adulthood, experienced loss, laughter, had children, jobs and career decisions, many did not. You are already successful. We have a tendency to quantify success in how we view others and in the same way that we sometimes seek approval from others, we compare what we have accomplished by what others have accomplished. This is completely self destructive. You cannot walk in another's body, or shoes or make their decisions with your own brain.
If you decide their life is more interesting than your own, then change your life. You didn't just come to eat your lunch. If you feel you have a lack of direction and lack of understanding about why you are here. Why on earth don't you investigate that? To sit mumbling on your bottom at a lack of understanding of what you are meant to be doing is taking you absolutely no where. People will say, give me some direction, some understanding and I will do that. Well I am sorry, you made this agreement before you came here of what your expectations were and what you were meant to be doing. It's not find it yourself, but come on... Nothing in this world is handed on a silver platter. If it were, where on earth would the learning be. You would have been given an indication, look deeper into yourself to find your dream and DON'T dismiss it. Dreams would never come true if some didn't have the courage to chase after their dreams.
You think you have it harder than most? Well is that real? Or a perception of your own mind as YOU compare yourself to others. I'm not picking, I have exactly the same difficulties as most people. My life equally has decisions, choices and trials that need to be addressed as well. I simply don't have all the answers either. If I answered you honestly I have as little direction as what you do. Just because I work with the Guides, Spirit Realm and higher understanding doesn't mean that I get information for me. If I do, I get more and more frustrated because it is never clear and always I have to work my butt off to work it out! One of the challenges of being here, is to perpetually hold to being just YOU.
In a world that influences us daily with news, views and people's perspectives. Hmmm what an enormous challenge to remain you under all of these influences. Get a job, get a life, get a wife?. If you get caught up in that cycle, you will completely lose track of what you are meant to be doing. I see so many spirit people who say, I wish I had of spent more time with my family, worked on relationships, VALUED my life and the people in it. K.I.S.S. It's that simple. We come here for relationships, understanding, evolution of self and soul, which means our growth. Nothing is NOT of value, just being here experiencing the physical is incredibly important, more than what you realise.
So what's your purpose? To be, to live, to laugh, to experience as much as possible. So stuff as much as possible in your life, your experiences help you to grow BUT have fun with it! You are already successful, you are still here, make sure it's a rounded success, don't judge by material standards. No-one I see ever, ever says I wish I had of had more money.... What's the point? Too late you are here, get in your darn life and find your feet and shine! You CHOSE to come here, experience everything you can, look for the opportunities, the growth, stuff your fears in a shoe, stomp on it and come back to enjoying every moment of every day. What a wonderful place to learn and grow. Why am I here... To simply BE! Take it and roll with it. No regrets! I LIKE you in my life, you are interesting, challenging, unique and wonderful! Be all you can be, you owe it only to you.