It is interesting, sometimes there is sooo much information that comes from the Guides and the other Realms that when I sit here to blog I kinda feel like my brain has been stretched like a noodle between two people and I am struggling to get all the information out that I need to pass on.
Also lately I have been completely fascinated with energy that is transferred between two people in a conversation. I visit a Spiritual Chat Room and just because people can be half a planet away, means absolutely nothing to the transference of energy and I wanted to explain what actually happens when you start talking to people, in fact any people, whether they are close or apart.
The first connection point in a conversation is not your mouth, when speaking, or your fingers for that matter, if you are typing, the connection point is your Solar Plexus, this is where basic energy information is exchanged. Think of it this way, have you ever been in a really intense meeting with someone and after that meeting have felt like your stomach is against your spine or hollow? This is because of that basic energy exchange level. It's a Chakra to Chakra exchange. The first point of connectivity connection. It should be mutual exchange of energy point, however if the person you are talking to is draining, then you will become drained at this level first. Not all exchanges are equal as people are so different and their needs so unique.
When you are really interested in someone at a mental level, then that Chakra begins to engage as well and the mental to mental connection is there as well. Basically looks like you have two cones coming off you towards that other person and that other person back to you. Interesting thing is that if one person is bossier than another one, then usually their cone is more dominant in the conversation. Hence if you understand it this way, this is how some people give you a headache :/
If you are in perfect alignment with another person, by definition, being in love, all the of the chakra cones are open to the other person. The exchange of energy is amazing to watch, incredible really. The energy flows at all Chakra points, sustaining, fluctuating and sharing. However, there is one thing that saddens me about that. It is simply how we are supposed to be all the time. Don't get me wrong I love seeing people in love, however it is a level of communication that we just don't get, the concept LOVE of here. We get it in small doses, until our insecurities dim and fade it with time.
We have a tendency to think that love is all gooey, sexual, sometimes restricted to the young? (That one I never get). When in all reality, we are just failing to engage properly with people here on the earth plane. Our egos, our insecurities and our sensitivities mean that we do not connect fully with people at many levels and this is how MAJOR difficulties arise in understanding ourselves as well as others.
As was pointed out to me recently, it can be our choice which Chakras we open and engage energy with others at, but the basic understanding of us as Energy Beings is missing for us to be able to understand how we connect with others at an energy level. This is extremely frustrating to me, I feel always I am searching for that elusive connection with people, beyond the most basic of connections, to the point I wonder in this lifetime whether it will be possible.
We need to learn more about how we interact with each other. A lot of this knowledge we know when we are not in bodies but the difficulty of working it out, or what we forget when we get here is amazingly HUGE! Makes me feel like I am drowning in a sea with a tiny life-preserver at times.
The one thing that I would ask of you, is to think about how many times you have been in a conversation with someone, that pull on your stomach, showing you that energy is being drawn off you. Random headaches that come on for no reason, but come as soon as someone comes in the room. How you connect with someone you are relaxed with, or someone you are tense with. I don't expect you to be able to see it, the exchanges but we need to pay more attention at a physical level of awareness of how people make you react. You would learn a heck of a lot more about yourself and interactions with others no matter where they are in the world if you take the time to consciously pay more attention.
I give up in bending my brain to explain I think I broke it. Here's Mathias, whom as infinitely more understanding that me :)
"Take the time to analyse yourself, your reactions to different things. See how you feel at a deep level in self when interacting with small animals, children, and nature. These are the easiest point to connect to self with. There are degrees of relaxation around animals, children and nature that allow you to connect to them differently. Your insecurities and worries are to obvious at times when connecting with others. You tense your body, your mind, your system and your heart in these situations. In order to gain learning about yourself and your energy, you must come back to the most basic of understanding.
In that you have to un-learn what has been preconceived about your understanding of yourself. You are not just a body, you are a sentient being, filled to capacity with the ability to interact and love others. You have simply forgotten how. Take the time to re-learn your interactions. Your wisdom of self, will be enhanced and you will soon understand why your physicality is manifesting a lot of responses to unseen connections beyond your current awareness."
Phew, thanks Mathias. Going forward into this year, the Year of Self, take the time to look at interactions and more importantly... Look at how many times there has been a "failure to engage" to connect with another with understanding, instead you have had to over explain yourself over and over again and got frustrated and annoyed. Know that in starting with you, you will always have more understanding for another.
And investing into self? Well we all know that is extremely worth while!