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A Lifetime Of Seasons(Food for Thought)

In this vast changing world we live in, we often stumble upon circumstances that could readily bring a heavy impact on our being. Just a mere situation we engage in everyday of our lives could somewhat leave us bewildered if not amazed how things rapidly turn around in front of our very eyes...

Same with people who dare enter our lifetime at one point or the other - those very people who can leave fingerprints if not footprints in our hearts the moment they come along in such unexpected places and time...

People come..people go...some are good eggs , others bad and at times it's up to us whether to let these people remain in our lives or to to bid them goodbye for now or see you later again... Happy

There is a purpose whether we believe it or not why such beings appear in our individual life stories... they could either teach us about life's lessons or influence us in either a good or a bad way...absorb what is good for you!You have the choice, it is your right! Tongue

Below are some food for thoughts I've found on the Net a few years back that I would like to share with you folks:

"People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life....."

By Brian A. Drew Chalker Happy

Source: http://www.healthyresponses.com/ShowArticle.asp?id=5