We don’t.
Carl Jung said, “One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”
For months to come, Americans will make every attempt to fix blame somewhere for the tragedy in Newtown. “What kind of monster would do this?”
Some will blame his mother. His upbringing. His easy access to guns. Huckabee, and others, say it’s because “we’ve thrown God out of our schools.”
That one I can answer. If that caused this tragedy, how would you explain the shooter who two years ago stormed the worship services at First Baptist Church in Maryville, Illinois, firing his semi-automatic resulting in the death of the pastor and two other parishioners?
As I said in my last post, this kind of explanation…spurious theology sucks. It is un-Christian. And, it is wrong.
But then, I am wrong much of the time, too.
We all are.
Which is why the only way to explain the evil around us is by understanding the potential for evil within all of us.
Shortly before his death, Albert Einstein, in response to the many accolades that had been coming his way for all his accomplishments responded by saying, there is, “a grotesque contradiction between what people consider to be my accomplishments and the reality of who I am and what I am capable of?”
What is he saying?
That to fix praise or blame…or to seek to dismiss ourselves…or our culture…from the evil we see expressed through the horrific violence of Adam Lanza is only minimally instructive. A more enlightening approach would be to examine the darkness in him by examining the potential for darkness within each of us. What he was capable of doing, we are all capable of doing.
“Know thyself,” said Socrates.
The reasons for this tragedy will only ever be known when you and I understand, and so forgive, the tragedy…the sadness…the brokenness…yes, even the potential for evil that is the human condition…that is you and me.
Jesus said, “He who is without sin, cast the first stone” (John 8:7). Elsewhere, Jesus said, “Judge not” (Matt. 7:1). Isn’t that essentially the same thing The Buddha was saying, when he counseled, “Stop searching for the truth; just let go of your opinions!”
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Culture of Violence
The latest focus seems to be the culture of violence that glorifies violence. Although I can see how Greek tragedies can be cathartic for an audience, we seem to live in a culture of senseless violence, where violence itself is glorified as entertainment. Cheap thrills, perhaps, but are they without social cost when so many viewers are being desensitized to images of violence as a result? Without going so far as to censor depiction of violence in art and infringing on the freedom of expression, there must be a way to improve media literacy and discussions on how violence affects society. http://www.medialit.org/reading-room/making-connections-medias-role-our-...
I think you're right Kim...
Frankly, I think it goes all the way back to the archetypes, as Carl Jung would label them, that we provide to our children as models around which they build the images of heroes and heroines of life. We all have them. So, just think back to your childhood and what were those archetypal images in your own life? For me, it was army heroes - there were no female heroines that I recall playing with and playing into. There were Biblical heroes and heroines, some friendly, others violent. As a culture, if we wish to raise up a new generation of more sensitized and human adults - humane, too - it seems to me that some very serious, and honest, conversation...reflection should take place around the kinds of archetypes to which we expose our children very early in life.
Blessings...
Philosophy for Children
Adam Lanza took one introductory college course at age 16 and even became a vegan out of empathy for animals, according to a family friend. This didn't deter him from killing 27 people including 20 children using bullets that caused massive tissue damage and killed almost instantly. He killed his mother in her sleep and the children didn't suffer for a very long time because of the multiple bullets and the severity of the wounds. I wonder if he took into account how long it will take for a bullet to kill someone, even though it would be grotesque to say that this was a human gesture on his part, but his act of violence was very intentional in that only one child and one injured adult survived. Anyhow, I wonder if this tragedy could have been avoided if Adam Lanza and his schoolmates could have benefited from a widespread philosophy for children program such as this one developed by the University of Washington. http://depts.washington.edu/nwcenter/aboutwhyphilosophyforchildren.html
I like this idea a lot...
Teaching philosophy to little children. Now that's an idea worth exploring. In Jewish traditions, they have a saying, "Learn, then Live." In the west, we think, and say, "Live and learn." We think living life, and failing at times, teaches us. And, of course, it does. But, there is great wisdom in this eastern notion that we can "learn, then live." Learn the great lessons of life when we're young and such wisdom will guide us along the pathway of adult living. Or, so it seems to me.
Archetypes and Schematas
Archetypes you mentioned reminded me of the concept of schema which we rely on to make sense of the world. I think most of us who took psychology in college are aware of archetypes but I wonder if the school psychiatrist who monitored Adam Lanza during his secondary school years was aware of this approach.
"Schema therapy was founded by Jeffrey Young, and represents a development of cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) specifically for treating personality disorders.The therapy blends CBT with elements of Gestalt, object relations, constructivist and psychoanalytical therapies in order to treat the characterological difficulties which both constitute personality disorders and which underlie many of the chronic depressive or anxiety-involving symptoms which present in the clinic. CBT, Young felt, may be an effective treatment for presenting symptoms, but without the conceptual or clinical resources for tackling the underlying structures (maladaptive schemas) which consistently organise the patient's experience, the patient is likely to lapse back into unhelpful modes of relating to others and attempting to meet their needs. Early Maladaptive Schemas are described by Young as: broad and pervasive themes or patterns; made up of memories, feelings, sensations, and thoughts; regarding oneself and one's relationships with others; developing during childhood or adolescence; elaborated throughout life; and dysfunctional in that they lead to self-defeating behaviour. Examples include schemas of abandonment/instability, mistrust/abuse, emotional deprivation, and defectiveness/shame." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schema_%28psychology%29
I think Adam Lanza may have suffered from fear of abandonment after his parents were divorced and his brother left home.