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The year of the non resolution for New Year's

Be it resolved: this year i will make no resolutions. I will not set up myself for disappointment and failure. Thats not to say i m perfect i could resolve to lose weight or quit smoking but i know i would just be setting myself up for shame and guilt when i slip up. To make a resolution you have to be completely ready or they simply wont work, and i m so not there yet. SO i will make no resolutions this year I will leave it to others to feel the shame and guilt when they fail. I will rest happy this New Year that i have nothing to worry about.