Like Charles, I have many obsessions--and, also like Charles, I'll talk about my embarrassing one. I'm obsessed with pencil stubs. Yeah, you know, the little bit that's left over when you've sharpened a pencil as much as it can possibly be sharpened? I just can't throw them away! I feel so bad for them, because they were so useful in their lifetime. How could I think of tossing away, heartless and uncaring, the object that brought my thoughts to paper? Surely to do so would be cruel!
Okay, maybe I'm being a little overdramatic, but I really do feel bad throwing them away. So instead I just sort of keep them in my pencil box . . . which mostly means that when I need a pencil, I don't actually have any of real length, and end up using the teeny stubby ones to take notes with in class. Sigh.
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Feeling bad for objects
For me it's grooming and toiletry products. If I throw away a Q-tip without using both ends, or a kleenex I didn't use because I inadvertently pulled two out of the box when I only needed one, I feel regret. A lot of human effort went into creating that object, and the culmination of that effort is my one-time use of it. Who am I to thoughtlessly throw that away, huh?!
Huntington Sharp, Red Room
I'm glad I'm not the only one!
It always sounds a little bit crazy when I try to explain it to people!
Maybe we're all crazy.
I feel bad about clothes I don't wear very often--I worry that they're feeling bored and neglected. Sometimes the feeling of guilt makes me wear something I don't really like, just so it gets a little bit of fun.
I think you're right.
I don't feel AS bad about not wearing them--I feel worse when I try to give them away! "Okay, I don't wear it at all, but it's kind of nice . . . even if it has all those loose threads at the bottom, and it doesn't exactly fit right . . . " etc.